Romans XII

STRESSED TO THE MAX!!!!

#2 note from my iPhone

So tired of being tired! All this stress is really weighing me down. I need a much needed vacation to escape from the busyness of this world. (Sigh) if only money grew on trees….

Note #1 from my iPhone

I’m so tired!! I mean not just physically tired but emotionally tired too. I feel as though I’m trying to rush school, to try to hurry and get out but my body can’t take 18 credit hours and going from 8-6:45 pm. Ugh something’s gotta give!! Im going to continue to pray for strength and peace……

If a Man WANTS You……

Now, Im not that old but I am old enough to understand apparent signals from a guy….I’ve noticed girls “not getting the CLEAR SIGNS that a man DOES NOT WANT YOU”  So to help them broads out I’m going to dedicate this post to the ones chasing after something that is not theirs…..

First and foremost If a Man Really truly wants you then nothing can keep him away and if he doesn’t want you, than nothing can make him stay, not what is between your legs, how bodacious you are, giving out freebies, making him jealous, sending him nasty RATED X pics (thats just gross). A guy can and will find someone who has more than what u can ever offer so stop trying. 

Stop making excuses for your man and his behavior. Stop denying who he really is, and wake up and learn to let go of him and his foolery. You can’t change a mans behavior, change comes within. And if he is not trying to change to better himself then, Why settle? If he is stringing you along then cut yourself away from him. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better” because you’ll get mad at yourself a year later for staying, when things are as rocky as they were before. The only person you can control in a relationship is you, so if you want to be stressed out, waste your time, look dumb, then it’s your choice.

NEVER, let a man feel that he is more important than you, even if has more education, makes more money etc. He is not God and he should never get that sense of entitlement. He is a man nothing more or nothing less. He should make y’all feel as equal, A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

NEVER: Let a man define who you are

 NEVER: borrow someone else’s man

 NEVER: live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy

Try to Avoid men with kids by multiple baby mommas, if he didn’t marry any of them, then what does that say about you. There is nothing cute about extra baggage. You don’t want to be a bag lady. 

If he cheated with you, then he’ll CHEAT ON YOU. A man will only act/ treat the way you ALLOW him to treat you.  Not all men are dogs but if you are doing all the bending in the relationship then something isn’t right. Compromise is a two way street, not one way. 

A man wants you to make him miss you, when a man always know where you are, and you’re always available he WILL take it for granted. 

Last but not least…..Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need!!!

That is all…

Vash xoxo